What is clitoral stimulation? Why does it matter?

The clitoris is a sensitive organ located at the top of the vulva (the external female genitalia) composed of erectile tissue and nerve endings. For many women, stimulation of the clitoris is the most effective way to achieve sexual pleasure and orgasm.

Can I use clitoral toys internally?

We do not recommend using small toys internally as doing so may result in the product slipping inside the vagina or anus and could require medical intervention. Clitoral toys and small vibrators are best used on erogenous zones on the body such as the clitoris, nipples or penis.

What’s the difference between air pulse, suction and vibrating clitoral toys?

Air pulse stimulation creates waves or puffs of air, or small vacuums that some describe as similar to the sensation of oral sex. It can feel like gentle sucking, or tapping, but does not have a suction mechanism.

Can I use clitoral toys with a partner?

Of course! Most clitoral stimulators are compact enough to fit between your bodies and won’t obstruct the vaginal opening, so you can enjoy penetration and clitoral stimulation simultaneously.

What are the differences between higher priced clitoral toys and lower priced ones?

Higher priced toys typically have higher quality internal mechanisms that last longer and/or are stronger or have more control options. Higher priced toys may also come with a better warranty depending on the manufacturer. Other benefits from purchasing a higher priced toy may be, but are not limited to rechargeability, Bluetooth compatibility, Smartphone connectivity, waterproof, better materials, stronger motors, longer lifespan etc. This isn’t to say a lower priced item isn’t also a good option. Those on a budget or just looking to try something for the first time may find it better to spend less money as they explore options.

Are clit vibrators good for post-op trans women?

Absolutely! Modern vaginoplasties and vulvaplasties give you a fully functioning clitoris. Not only that, but some post-op trans women have also reported heightened stimulation in the labia minora and labia majora. Depending on how you heal, you will need to figure out those sweet spots for stimulation.

Once you have the all-clear from your doctor, we strongly recommend exploring your new anatomy with some of our clit stimulators, suction vibrators, or panty vibes.

Are panty vibrators discreet?

Panty vibes on a low vibration setting should be well muffled, but it might not be entirely silent. If you’re looking for a remote toy that is as quiet as possible, we recommend an insertable toy such as the Lush from Lovense.

What is G-spot stimulation and why does it matter?

The G-spot is located on the top inner wall of the vagina and contains a sensitive network of nerves that connects to the clitoris. When stimulated, it can increase sexual arousal and can even lead to deeper, stronger orgasms.

What makes a G-spot toy different from a regular toy?

G-spot stimulators and vibrators are crafted with a wide, angled shaft that makes G-spot stimulation easier. These products may have a broad or bulbous head specifically designed to locate this pleasure zone easily. Straight vibes can still stimulate this spot, but an angled or curved toy will make stimulation more accessible.

Can I use a G-spot toy for anal play?

It is only recommended to use a vibrator anally if there is a flared base or hilt to prevent a toy from slipping into the rectum, as doing so may require medical intervention. Anal toys are specially designed with wide bases or flared bottoms to prevent them from lodging in the anal cavity. Because of this, we do not recommend using G-spot toys for anal play.

How long does a charge last on rechargeable toys? How many times can they be recharged?

Each toy is different and a charge may last anywhere from 30 minutes – 2 hours. This may also depend on motor strength and if the toy is run on the highest speed for long periods of time. Internal batteries will deplete after prolonged use, so if you notice your toy does not keep a charge as long as it used to, it may be time to replace it.

Can I use g-spot vibrators for prostate play?

Yes you can! The tip of a gspot vibrator is typically at an angle and bulbous or egg-shaped. It’s perfect for reaching the prostate as well as the g-spot.

What is the point of a rabbit vibrator?

Rabbit vibrators are unique, dual stimulation toys that stimulate the vaginal canal or G-spot and the clitoris at the same time. Since a vagina’s pleasure receptors are connected, most find multiple points of simultaneous stimulation extra gratifying and may result in stronger, more satisfying orgasms. There are thousands of rabbit-style toys you can experiment with!

How do I choose the right rabbit toy for me?

If you can think of it, chances are, there’s a rabbit for it! Some rabbit vibrators have beaded shafts that rotate, thrust, heat up or tap while the clitoral stimulator may vibrate, gyrate, suck or massage. Think about which kind of stimulation feels best for you personally, and we bet there’s a rabbit out there ready to meet your needs! Each product page will have information about the toy’s functions, so we recommend doing a little reading to find what’s right for you.

Can I use a rabbit vibrator if I am a male?

There are no rules regarding gender when it comes to sex toys. Penis owners of all kinds may find pleasure incorporating a vibrating sex toy into their masturbation routine or sex life.

Can I use this with a partner at the same time?

You may use a rabbit vibrator as part of the foreplay experience. However, individuals may find it difficult to use a rabbit vibrator during penetrative sex as the toy can get in the way. You may use a rabbit vibrator to stimulate the clitoris or other erogenous zones during sex. Exploration is half the fun!

Can I control the insertable part and clitoral vibration independently?

This depends on the toy, some rabbit vibes have a single motor controlling both, and some rabbit vibrators have dual motors, allowing independent control. If the product doesn’t advertise dual motor functionality, check the buttons on the front of the toy. It should have one for each.

What is a suction toy and what makes it special?

Suction stimulators are made for clitoral stimulation and uses a gentle pulsing or air tapping mechanism to simulate the sensation of oral sex. Contrary to popular belief, these toys actually suck at all! Using innovative internal mechanisms, these toys surround the clitoris and pulses of air create the sensation of soft suction. This is a different sensation that vibration that many have come to enjoy.

Can I use a suction stimulator somewhere other than my clitoris?

Yes! You can use a suction stimulator on the nipples as well or anywhere else you’d like to feel gentle waves of sensation.

How do I clean my suction toy?

We recommend cleaning all sex toys with gentle soap and water or toy cleaner before and after each use to prevent bacteria from forming. You can use a cotton swab and toy cleaner to carefully clean out the clitoral chamber. Air dry for best results and store in a secure place away from children, pets and out of direct sunlight.

What’s the difference between air pulse, suction and vibrating clitoral toys?

Air pulse stimulation creates waves or puffs of air, or small vacuums that some describe as similar to the sensation of oral sex. It can feel like gentle sucking, or tapping, but does not have a suction mechanism.

Are suction toys safe to use?

Surprisingly, the sex toy industry doesn’t have much regulation when it comes to personal sex products. It comes down to the manufacturer to craft safe toys as well as a retailer to responsibly stock toys that are safe to use. When you purchase from a retailer like Love Shop, we ensure that the products sold are safe to use and contain built-in safety features to ensure the perfect amount of suction pressure for pleasure.

However, keep in mind that mass manufactured sex toys that you may find on Amazon, Temu, Wish, or fast fashion websites may not have safety features at all.

Can vibrating wands be used for non-sexual purposes?

Body wands are perfect for body massage and can help with muscle aches and pains–not just the sexy stuff!

What’s the difference between a wand and a vibrator?

Wands tend to have bigger or stronger motors, which means much more strength. They also have a larger surface area than most vibrators for better massage capabilities and longer shafts for hard to reach areas like your back or legs.

Can wands be used during sex?

Of course! Wands are a great way to pump up the pleasure during sex. Try a wand on the clitoris while in missionary, or use one to tease your partner before and during sex. You’ll be happy you did!

How do I clean my wand?

We recommend cleaning all sex toys with gentle soap and water or toy cleaner before and after each use to prevent bacteria from forming. Air dry for best results and store in a secure place away from children, pets and out of direct sunlight. Do not submerge your wand under water, as doing so may result in irreversible damage. Do not leave a wand plugged in while not in use unless you are charging your product.

Will using a wand vibrator for too long make me less sensitive?

Toys with extremely strong vibrations like the Magic Wand or Doxy could desensitise your nerves with prolonged use. Most of the time, simply waiting will restore your original sensitivity so we suggest moderation and taking frequent breaks.

Can I insert a bullet vibrator?

We do not recommend inserting small vibrators, as you may run the risk of the product becoming lodged in the vaginal canal or anus, and may require medical attention.

Can these be used on body parts other than my clitoris?

Yes! You can use small vibrators to stimulate the clitoris, nipples, outer anus and any other external body part or erogenous zone.

How do I maintain and clean this product?

Remove batteries before gently washing the product with mild soap and warm water (do not submerge in water). For best battery life, store the product in a safe and dry place without the batteries inside to prevent corrosion.

Are bullet stimulators waterproof?

We do not recommend submerging any battery-operated or rechargeable product unless it is clearly stated as waterproof or submersible on the product packaging. To be safe, do not put electronic products under water. However, they are water-resistant for cleaning.

Can I take bullets with me while I’m travelling?

Depending on your mode of transportation, they might have regulations for your sex toy. If your toy has a removable battery, it’s best to remove it before travelling. If your toy has an internal battery, we recommend checking with an airline before bringing it onto a plane. You may need to declare it, or it may not be allowed at all.

Products with removable batteries are best for travelling since they typically follow airline guidelines. Plus, they won’t accidentally turn on when in your backpack!