Arousers & Desensitizers

Arousers and desensitizers can help heighten arousal and/or temporarily make your erogenous zones more sensitive to touch. They can help enhance or prolong orgasms, resulting in better satisfaction when used for masturbation or intercourse. Most users find the added sensations make for greater pleasure.

Arousal gels, creams and sprays are specially formulated for topical application and may contain ingredients that tingle, buzz or warm. There is a vast array of arousers for various body parts such as the penis, nipples, clit, G-spot and skin. These can heighten arousal and temporarily make your erogenous zones more sensitive to touch. They’re fun to use on your own or with a partner.

Desensitizing gels, creams and sprays do the opposite of an arouser. It can decrease sensitivity to prolong orgasms, create a gentle numbing effect for oral or anal sex and help with sexual stamina training. We only sell safe desensitizers without large amounts of numbing agents to prevent accidental injury, so you can rest assured you’re buying a product from a reputable and tested brand.

We always recommend carefully following the instructions for any given product. Desensitizers should be applied prior to sexual contact so your skin has enough time to absorb the active ingredients and reduce the chance of transferring to a partner.

The following answer is not medical advice, seek medical attention immediately if you experience an allergic reaction from an arouser or desensitizer.

It is highly recommended to research the ingredients in a product in case it contains any components that may cause an allergic reaction. Unfortunately, we cannot account for everyone’s allergies, so we make the product information available so you can make the best choice for your body. If you cannot find the ingredient list, please let us know and we will do our best to provide you with all the information possible.

While there is no guarantee arousers or desensitizers will help your relationship, exploring new avenues of play with your partner(s) may help strengthen bonds and/or increase trust and comfort.